This is an urgent message to any woman who uses online dating sites.
Online dating profile writing is a task, mostly because you are thinking about writing an out-standing profile more than writing about yourself that men would love to know. Okay, that’s very vague too but you must do some research before just spitting out your resume on your online dating profile!
Revealing some of the worst online dating profile mistakes most women are probably making and some of them are instant deal killers!
Writing more than needed
Most profiles on online dating apps say a story that nobody is interested in reading past the first line. The first and most important thing women must know about men is they do not like too much talking, in case of online profiles, too much of writing. Men are known to have a short attention span and don’t want to know so many details, that’s what getting to know you should be all about. Men like short and to the point dating profiles, just like ESPN football summaries!
Are going grocery shopping? “I’m looking for a man who likes traveling, dogs, food, children… “. You write a list of everything your ideal man needs to be and everything you are. Of course, you have a list but that’s not meant to be on your dating profile! Save it for the time when you genuinely start thinking about a guy, your dating profile is not even the first step!
Showing off and telling about yourself are two very obviously noticeable differences anyone could tell. Like we women don’t like men who show off and are pretentious about their so-called happening life, men too hate pretentious bitches! You need not have a flashy wardrobe, makeup or cars screaming from your profile and pictures. The last thing you want if the guy to find out who you are in real and then leave. Show who you really are and you will attract the right kind of male traffic on every online dating website.
Being to Generic
Yes, this point is the one that scares every woman out and then we start to do all the wrong things to make our profile noticeable. On any online dating app, look at 10 random profiles right now, I bet you’ll find surprising similarities! Everyone wants to show they’re -Fun, adventurous, love traveling, eating out and of course, taking walks along the beach! It’s like the hobby section of every resume – reading, music, traveling!
You may be doing these but don’t make them sound so generic, make the ordinary extraordinary. For example, “I’m adventurous” doesn’t tell me anything, however by writing “I’m taking flying lessons” you’ve got my attention. To stand out in the online crowd you need a profile that is unique and compelling.
The profile is just about whetting the appetite and giving men just enough to want to find out more about you. Avoid these instant deal killers and consider rewriting your profile having these don’ts open in front of you. These will surely build you a profile with all the yes’s!